send me a ship and I’ll tell you who:

• shops for groceries: asami, though iroh offers to when he’s home.
• kills the spiders: both. bugs in general don’t bother either of them.
• comes home drunk at 3am: neither. neither strike me as particular drinkers unless it’s tea or coffee.
• makes breakfast: iroh, especially when he comes back in the spring from being out at sea, he’ll make an extra special meal and surprise asami.
• remembers to feed the fish: they wouldn’t own fish because between iroh being gone half the year on deployment and asami working herself to exhaustion the fish would starve anyway.
• decorates the apartment: asami
• initiates duets: asami, iroh unfortunately does not join in so asami just sings solo to herself. iroh insists it is because she has a lovely voice and he doesn’t want to ruin it since he’s a tone-deaf walrus-cat.
• falls asleep first: asami, she sleeps best when iroh is home and safe.